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SC Floods

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We've needed rain awhile but we got rain for over a week which ended up in some flooding. We had a low pressure that sat in our area for a week. So it was cloudy and drizzly for days. Then Hurricane Joaquin went up the Atlantic and drew heavy rains on already saturated SC. So, since Thursday night, we've had a lot of rain. Thankfully, Spartanburg received less than anticipated at just over 6". But further south in the midlands and coastal flatlands, they got double digit inches in rain and there was no place for it to go. I went on Saturday, 10/3/2015, to the old Glendale cotton mill. It has the smokestack and two towers, the dam and old bridge (no longer used for traffic but still there), the old office building and the general store (now a post office). It's been made into a park with a picnic area, ampitheater, benches and walking trail. It's on Lawson's Fork Creek and the creek was flooding over the banks. I got these photos myself.



Now we took our grandniece and grandnephew, Stan's mother and sister for a picnic at the Glendale park and we actually sat on the rocks and the children waded in the puddles in the rocks. These photos were taken at the Glendale park on 8/13/2015.




Now compare to yesterday and you can tell the flooding. I sat on that bench and had my picnic while the children and Stan played on the rocks just in front of the bench. Well, here is the bench but the rocks are covered with wild water!











Now here are photos I found on Facebook of the flooding that has been happening in SC this weekend. These are NOT my photos and I don't make anything by posting them, it's just for interest sake. A lot of people could use prayers. We don't usually have such flooding so a lot of people have no flood insurance and this will be terrible for them.







































































Linville Falls



This was taken on Ocean Boulevard in Myrtle Beach, SC. A shark!



Charleston, SC on The Battery



Canoeing through the Charleston Market in downtown.




I used these photos to do a 2 page digital scrapbook layout. I felt these photos represented this terrible devastation that South Carolinians are suffering and I wanted to document it for my annual scrapbook. Each year I put together an annual scrapbook and have it printed for our personal use. These pages will go in it.



Things I Don't Keep

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There are things that I make a conscious choice not to keep. My Grandmother, who lived during the Great Depression would roll over in her grave at the things I don't try to save. I can be somewhat thrifty, but there are some things that I don't think are worth saving. Too much space, too much hassle, too much maintenance.

I don't save junk mail. As I go through my mail, I shred sensitive stuff and throw the rest in the recycle bin.

I don't save wire hangers. I don't like them, never have. I have my favorite styles of hangers and that's all I use. So you can't find a wire coat hanger in my house.

I don't save wrapping paper, tissue paper. I save gift bags to reuse up to a certain extent but if that gets out of hand, I get rid of what I don't need. I will recycle gift bags by giving them to others who will use them. I gave up wrapping presents. They go in a gift bag or the shopping bag I got from the store. I think wrapped packages are so pretty but it's just not me. I decided not to worry about wrapping. I don't keep ribbons and stuff either.

I don't keep most cards that I get. I keep the ones from my husband, those that have real meaning to me. I do have a box for the cards that I keep and a nice tin for the ones from my husband and the ones I give to him.

I don't keep cardboard boxes. I don't like to use cardboard boxes for storage. They get ratty looking and wimpy. And they attract bugs. The corrugation makes for bug homes. So I prefer plastic for storage. If I need to mail something, I use the boxes from the post office. They are free. So cardboard boxes go into recycling right away.

I don't usually keep any packaging like plastic bags, plastic tubs, bread ties. I keep a certain deli tub because it's perfect size for Stan's sandwiches or leftovers for lunch. But usually I don't keep packaging. It goes in recycling or the trash. I make sure it's something that I'm really going to use if I keep it. I have my Tupperware and similar containers so I don't need to keep throwaway containers. I'm not going to waste space keeping something that I don't need.



I don't keep clothes that I don't wear or have gotten too worn to wear. I have one or two outfits that I use for hard work. But if something gets a hole in it, gets stained or is not worth wearing, I get rid of it. I'm not going to waste space keeping every old thing I won't wear. I regularly, twice a year, go through my closet and pull out anything I don't wear or is getting too worn. What is still in good condition gets donated and anything in too bad a shape gets tossed.

I don't keep books I don't like or were just light reading. If it's not any good, I toss it in the recycle bin. If it's offensive, I recycle it. If I've read it and won't be reading it again, I pass it along. I give them to Friends of the Library. Or I leave them at the gym with a sticky note saying "Free".

I don't keep magazines. I used to but then I found it was wasted space. I wasn't going back and looking at them. I had them all organized but they were still wasted space and dust collectors. I do it all digitally now. I use bookmarks, Pinterest, etc. Pinterest is my magazine. I go through Pinterest and I pin stuff I see on other websites and I have all kinds of boards. That way, if I want to go back and look for something, it's there. Doesn't take up any of my space, I don't have to dust it. I can do all the enjoying without any of the hassle or expense.

I'm trying to do more collecting digitally than physically. All my scrapbooking is digital now. My hobby of genealogy means keeping digital records. My photography results in digital pictures. 75% of my books are digital on my tablet. I scan things and keep them digitally. It's really helping me. Give yourself permission to get rid of things.

Little Cash Is Growing Up

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Our little grandnephew, Cash, is going to be celebrating his first birthday soon. His mother took photos of him every month and this is the digital scrapbook page I made of those photos through 8 months old.




She also took these photos. He's just started walking and he was playing outside. Rather than playing with all his toys, he seems happy with a stick. That should teach us all! Here is the digital scrapbook page I made of him playing with a little stick. He's so adorable!

Blood Moons

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Another big story this Fall was the 4th Blood Moon a tetrad of blood moons. Meaning 4 blood moons, the tetrad have occurred rarely in history and these happened to fall on major Jewish holidays, giving them more interest. Also, considering the Papal visit and the Russian attacks on Syria, the floods in SC and the college shootings, it gives you pause.

I wanted to document my feelings about this with a scrapbook layout. The last Blood Moon occurred on September 27-28, 2015. Unfortunately, although I stayed up to try and see it, it was cloudy in our town and there was no moon to see. I found these photos on the Internet so I could use them in my layout. Each year I do a personal scrapbook and have it printed for us. This page will be in that scrapbook.

Obviously Jesus Christ did not come back on that day or I wouldn't be writing this. So it was not a sign of His coming. I believe the event is a sign from God that will herald some major events but it wasn't about Jesus' return.

There were popular ministers who wrote books on the Blood Moons using prophesies in the Bible to point to something major happening.

Joel 2: 31 "the sun will turn into darkness, and the moon into blood, before the great and terrible day of the Lord comes."

Acts 2:12 "The sun shall be turned into darkness, and the moon into blood, before the coming of the great and awesome day of the Lord."

Revelation 12:6 "And I beheld when he had opened the sixth seal, and lo there was a great earthquake, and the sun became black as sackcloth of hair, and the moon became as blood."

I'm not a prophecy expert. But I know that Jesus, himself, said no one knows the day or the hour of His return. So I didn't think it would happen on 9/27/2015 or 9/28/2015. And it's not happened. But I do believe in the prophecies in the Bible. I believe every word in the Bible is true. I have complete faith in it. I have learned that if I don't immediately understand something, then the problem is with me and my perspective. Once I study it and learn and pray and meditate, usually my understanding begins to focus. Much like using the lenses in a microscope to bring things on the slide into focus. I have always found the Bible reliable after all. I feel like this will be what happens here. In time, these prophesies and this tetrad of Blood Moons will fall into place and we will understand.

Am I worried? Not at all. I'm saved through Jesus Christ and my eternity is secured. No matter when Jesus returns, I'm ready. No matter what events happen while I'm still on earth, God is with me because I am His Child. Not because of how good I am (heavens NO!). I am not good. But Jesus is. He is perfect and He paid for my sins because I could not. Now God sees me as perfect and righteous because of what Jesus did for me. I am His Child because of what Jesus did for me. You can be too! God loves you. There is nothing you could do that would make you unforgivable! But you must trust in Jesus and Him alone. You must ask forgiveness for your sins and ask Him to be the Lord of your life. Once you finally realize your need for a Savior and believe that Jesus is the only Savior... you are saved! That is saving faith. Until you believe that, you are lost. No matter how good a person you are, you cannot be saved without this saving faith. No matter how bad a person you are, you can be saved with saving faith. So don't worry about Blood Moons, except as it makes you think about God and if it turns your heart towards Him. Every sign points to God and to His provision for your salvation and your eternal security. There is no need to be afraid. But there is every need to saved no matter what is, or isn't, going on in the world. Don't be caught unaware. Make sure of your salvation so that you too will have the assurance of your eternity and the confidence that God loves you and takes care of His children while they are yet in this world. He walks with His children throughout all their life. He never leaves or forsakes us. His love never leaves us.




Things Found In The Homes Of Happy People

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I made a list of thing that I believe make us happier people. Do you have them in your home?

A well read Bible - not just a coffee table Bible (for show) but one that has been read, underlined, notes made in margins. It reveals someone who cares about learning the Word of God on a regular basis.


Devotionals and Journals - I believe meditative writing is another way to exorcise bad feelings and deal with them in a healthy way. I don't believe just writing bad feelings down gets rid of them. I believe reading God's Word, praying and then writing means we are doing it in a HEALTHY way! We are not repressing and we are not obsessing, we are letting go and letting God.

A well loved and well cared for pet -  It cannot be beat for helping you to feel loved and relaxed. It also helps you be accountable to walking the dog (exercise) and getting up and taking care of your dogs (getting you out of bed when you may not feel like it). It can help teach children compassion and how to be responsible for another living being.


Books in your areas of interest - Reading regularly helps exercise your brain, develops concentration skills and imagination. It helps you relax. Reading and relaxing is good quiet time.

Hobbies - Everyone needs a hobby to some degree. We can overdo it and spend too much time and money in hobbies. So balance is essential. But we do need areas of interest outside our every day work. It encourages us to learn and stretch beyond our normal every day routines. It can be a creative hobby which stimulates imagination and gives you an outlet for creativity. It should be a stress reliever and not a hobby that adds stress. If you go on the golf course and compete and get angry, then maybe that shouldn't be your hobby. You want to be able to relax, enjoy, get your mind of things for awhile.

A little bit of mess - Again, there must be balance. If you have too much mess and clutter then you WON'T be able to relax. But if you are so OCD that you can't have anything out of place, then you are also out of balance. I love a clean and organized home. But if I kill myself and drive everyone crazy with it, I'm out of balance. I should be able to leave the dishes in the sink overnight if necessary. I should be able to re-schedule my laundry day if necessary. That doesn't mean I procrastinate and never get it done. But it means I'm not so regimented that I can't be a little flexible.

Family items - Now I realize that some families lose everything in natural disasters. That is totally understandable. But if you have the option and you have saved some family items, that means you have a loving family, one with good memories and you wanted to save something of their's. Hand-me-downs have something going for them that no new piece ever can: history. On the other hand, again with the balance. You can't save everything your grandmother touched. We have to be selective and use commonsense and wisdom. But I have a lot of items that remind me of my family because I love my family and have good memories.



Used luxuries - I remember finding a dusty box in my Grandmother's closet. When I opened it, I found a beautiful set of towels with handmade crocheted edges. When I asked her about it, she said they had been a wedding present (in 1933!). I asked her why she hadn't used them and she said, "Because they are too good!" She had been hoarding something because they were too good to use. What a waste. I don't want to buy a candle and never burn it. I don't want to spend money on an evening gown and never get to wear it. If I'm going to buy something, I want to get their use. Don't spend money on something that you keep wrapped in tissue paper and boxed in a dark corner. Use it. Having small luxuries and using them are treats to yourself and make you feel pampered. So if you buy that special floral lotion... use it. If you buy that favorite perfume... use it. If you receive a gift of a pretty piece of jewelry... wear it. Treat yourself!

Twenty Five Things You Can Lose Today And Declutter Without Missing It

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  1. Books that you don't need for future reference. A few years ago I got rid of boxes and boxes of books because I can have a hoard of ebooks and it not take up any room in my house or need to be dusted. I only keep old reference genealogy books, some of my best collections and a few for when I need a book while taking a hot bath (don't want those tablets in the water). lf it's something that you can't get in ebook form, that's one thing but more and more books are being digitalize. Check out Google books for old books that have been digitilized and are free.
  2. Clothing that is in bad shape. If you are holding on to old tshirts, holey socks, picked polyester slacks.... don't. Give yourself permission to throw away clothing that is in bad shape. I keep a couple of junk outfits to wear when I'm cleaning house or working in the yard. But that's it. I don't keep stuff that will never be worn again because they are in such bad shape. I regularly throw away socks, underwear and clothes as I do the laundry and I notice stains, holes, picks, etc.
  3. Clothing that is out of style and you aren't going to wear them. Also any that are no longer your size. It's not necessary to keep clothes that are too big or too small for you. If you are positive that you are going to lose weight or gain your weight back (maybe you lost it due to illness) then store in plastic boxes or vacuum sealed plastic bags and clearly mark what size is in the container and store. But once it's a year old, get rid of the clothes. It means you aren't going to be that size any time soon if you haven't done it in a year. As far as styles... If you have the space to store some things then choose some representative pieces and store. It's fun to look back sometimes on the styles that came and went. And you might could use them for costumes in the future for you (if you are still that size) or your children. But don't try to save everything. And store in clearly marked containers with the style, what's included and the size. For instance, "1970's, platform sandals size 8, bell bottom jeans women's size 7, men's polyester slacks size 34x32" So one or two outfits, shoes, accessories from styles of the 70's, 80's , etc is all I would save and that only if you have storage space. Otherwise, it all goes.
  4. DVDs, VHS and music CDs. You can use YouTube, Netflix, Amazon for digital movies and music is better and easy to download digitally. There is no need to keep those old movie and music things. Even if you are a collector of movies, collect digitally.
  5. Old jewelry that you don't wear. If it's getting dusty, then that means you aren't wearing it. So donate it. And, in the future, limit your jewelry purchases to a few fashion pieces and then keep it to more simple sterling silver or gold pieces. Don't keep boxes full of junk jewelry. Now, you can keep a few pieces for little girls to play with. Add some fun costume pieces to a box in their dress up clothes. But not too many or they will just get tangled up and be ruined anyway.
  6. Out of date medicine
  7. Dried herbs and spices that are too old. It loses it's flavor after a year or so so toss it.
  8. Toys that your children have outgrown or no longer play with. Keeping piles of toys that they don't use is a pain. You are cleaning them, cleaning around them, constantly putting them away, trying to find more space to store it... it's not necessary. If you think you are going to have another child, then you might store some in plastic boxes out of the way. But if you are through having children, donate them and get them out of the house. If a child played all day long with their toys, and still haven't touched this or that or those.... then it's not necessary to keep them.
  9. Magazines. In fact, why are you even paying for magazine subscriptions? Really ask yourself why? I use Pinterest for my magazine addiction. And I pin stuff to multiple boards if I want to keep it. I have boards for recipes, home decor, adobe photoshop tips, genealogy, dogs, history, etc.  You can make as many boards as you want and organize using them. For instance, for recipes, don't just have a recipe board but have Recipes-Beef dishes, Recipes-Poultry dishes, Recipes-Hors D'Oeuvres, Recipes-Halloween, Recipes-Christmas.... you see, you can have them any way that makes sense to you! Same with Home Decor. You could have boards for Home Decor-Entrance Halls, Home Decor-Children's Rooms, Home Decor-Garden Room, Porches, Patios, Home Decor-Modern, Home Decor-Shabby Chic, etc. Having said all this, do you really need magazines? If you do, do you need to keep them longer than a couple of months? Maybe it's time to get rid of them. You can donate them to a thrift store. Or you can donate them to your doctor's office, the hospital behavioral health floor, your hair dressers, a neighbor or family member, jail, any waiting room. Snip your address off and donate those old magazines that are taking up space, getting dusty and are not necessary.
  10. Paper clutter. Get a basket and go room to room and gather all junk paper. Junk mail, old bills and statements, leaflets, brochures, old cards, business cards, etc. If you can scan, photograph, or find it digitally (such as your bank statements, accessing a website or saved on Pinterest, credit card statements and such that are available on the Internet), then do it and get rid of the paper clutter. You don't have to keep old receipts, invoices, statements, etc if you can scan them. I keep a folder on my computer named "My Scans". Within that folder are subfolders by year. So there are folders for 2010, 2011, 2012, etc. Within those folders I have sub-subfolders named "Electric 2015", "Water 2015", "Home Mortgage 2015", "Insurance 2015", etc. Then I scan all bills and receipts and save to the correct folder. Now they are digitized and organized. Don't stop there, but regularly back this folder up to another hard drive or in the cloud so that you don't lose it. You may not even want to keep digital copies. I mean, once you've paid a bill you can just toss the statement. So just keep receipts and statements that affect your income taxes and toss the rest. If you have a shredder, shred. If not, put in boxes and go to a community shredding event. They are free. Take your boxes and let a professional shred in their industrial shredder in their truck. If I have a party invitation for one of my nieces or nephews and I want to keep it, I scan it as a jpg file and store it in their picture folder for the year. There is no need to keep old cards. If they mean that much to you, scan and then toss. With business cards, you can enter the contact information in your MS Outlook or Gmail contacts. Be sure to make a note about why you are saving the contact information and create categories for "Household Business", "Medical", "Business", "Church", etc. Then toss the card. Get rid of paper clutter!
  11. Do you have boxes in your attic full of past year's paper? (See #10) Don't save anything unless it's truly important. Save your mortgage papers from 10 years ago but don't save your grocery receipts from last year. Save your immunization records but don't save your VISA statements. Save your tax records and backup receipts but don't save your 2 year old bank statements. Take the important stuff out and then take the rest to be shredded (see #10).
  12. Anything broken. I broke the crock in one of my crockpots. That made me so mad but there is no use saving the working electrical part hoping I can find a replacement crock for it. I looked it up online and the cost of replacing it, with shipping and handling, made it cheaper to buy a new one and toss the old one. So if something is broken, toss it. Old watches, glasses you no longer use, dried out ink pins, if it doesn't work trash it!
  13. I have a large file drawer and file folders for all the stuff that comes with manuals and warranties. But every year or so I go through them and pull out the stuff for things I no longer have or use. The old camera that no longer works, the laptop that had to be thrown away, the dryer that quit and was replaced.
  14. Packaging. Yes, I get rid of all packaging as I bring the item in the house. If it's shipped in a box, I bring it inside, take it out of the box, do any cleaning and then put it where it needs to go. Then I recycle the box and any packaging. Same with toothpaste. I bring in the bags from the store, unpack, open all the packaging and put away items and put the packaging in the trash or recycling.bin. I never leave boxes or bags without putting things away. I unload my car, bring in the bags and unpack. I put things away. They don't sit around and get in my way. Everything is unpacked and put away and I get rid of the packaging. I recycle plastic bags and put all cardboard and plastic containers in recycling.
  15. Things that you don't like or don't like any more. Go room to room and see if there is anything that you don't like any more or maybe never liked it. It's OK to take it out and donate it or give to someone you know will like it or use it. Have you gone blind to pictures on the wall? You no longer see them or get joy from them, donate them. Why dust around knick knacks that you don't really like? Even if they were gifts, if you don't really like them, you can remove them and donate them.
  16. Old food. That's right, if there are things in the bottom of your freezer and it's too old, toss it. If there is an expiration date, throw it away. Clean out the moldy containers in your refrigerator. Toss out stale items. If you haven't used a can of such and such in a year, it means you probably won't so donate it. Don't let it sit there for 5 years and have to be thrown away. Food that is inedible is trash. It's good for nothing and only taking up your space.
  17. Coffee mugs that you don't use. It seems like companies like making coffee mugs with their logos and give them away. Before you know it, you have a cabinet full of junk mugs that you don't really like. You don't have to take them or keep them. I only keep the ones that match my dishes and that I really like. Donating those old coffee mugs that you don't like, empties a lot of space!
  18. Same with plastic cups. You don't have to save the plastic cups you get from the baseball game you went to or the giveaway cups from the beer festival. If you don't like to use them, you don't have to keep them. Recycle or donate. I had an aunt one time that had a cabinet full of those giveaway plastic cups and we all hated using them but she insisted. She could afford a set of matching glasses but she kept reusing those awful plastic cups. And my Grandmother would make us all save our styrofoam and plastic cups and she would spend her time handwashing them and making us reuse them. I can do that a time or two but not for months. I don't like them so I don't keep them and I certainly don't handwash them to be reused. They are for throwing away so I throw them away. The whole point of buying these cups are for the convenience of throwing away.
  19. Plastic shopping bags. I keep about 10 bags and those are only clean ones. If they have carried meet or dairy or something has leaked, I get rid of them. I don't save 50 or 100 bags. I only keep about 10. The rest I put in the recycle bin at the grocerie store. So keep a reasonable amount but recycle the rest.
  20. Kitchen utensils that you don't use or that don't work the way you thought they would. No use taking up space if they don't do what you want them to do. Donate those utensils you don't use.
  21. Small kitchen appliances that you don't use. Do you really use that bread maker? Do you really use that ice cream maker? Do you really need that hot chocolate maker or that espresso maker? I really use my crockpots and I have 3 sizes and I use all three of them. I really use my bread maker and my Kitchenaid mixer. But I don't use that iced tea maker or that shaved ice machine. Donate it and free up your space. I have a waffle iron that I need to donate since we haven't made waffles in 9 years.
  22. Do you save plastic food containers like butter bowls, sandwich meat containers, etc? You can save a couple to send home leftovers with but you don't have to keep too many, nor do you have to wash and reuse over and over again. It's time to throw away. Clean out any of those things and donate.
  23. Do you have any mismatched Tupperware or plastic food containers? Maybe some lids that don't fit anything else or bowls without lids? Pieces that you don't use after all? It's OK to donate the things you don't use. You need the real estate to store things you do use.
  24. Old vases from flower bouquets you got. Those cheapy flower vases can take up much needed space and there is no reason to save them. Donate them back to the flower shop or to a thrift store.
  25. Old linens. If you have old pillow cases, a flat sheet with no matching fitted sheet, a blanket with a hole in it. a stained tablecloth, frayed towels, then you can get rid of them. Old towels can be donated to a vet or groomer to be used with animals. Donate old sheets and loners (without a match).  Throw away things that are too stained, or damaged.

Fall Harvest Day Tractor Show, Arden, NC, October 23, 2015

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I took Mom, Dad, our niece, Hannah, and her two children, Savannah and Will, to the tractor show. It was a beautiful day. Bright sunshine and moderate temperatures. My Dad loves the old tractors. The kids love it too!

We first stopped at a thrift store in Landrum, NC. Then we stopped in Hendersonville, NC for lunch at Hannah Flannagan's Pub and Restaurant.

Will



Savannah



Hannah



Dad



Me (without my glasses)















After lunch, we started to the tractor show but I heard a thump. Hannah knew right away what it was. When I was feeding the parking meter, I had set my regular glasses, in their glass case, on the hood. Then I walked away. I didn't remember so I had assumed my glasses were in the car. I didn't notice the glass case on the hood until we heard that thump. Dad and I went back and walked along the road but never found the glass case so I'm without my regular glasses. I saw my optometrist on the following Monday and ordered my new glasses but I'm having to wear my sunglasses 24/7 until they come in.

Back to the tractor show.



Savannah loves pairing off with my Mother, her Great Grandmother. My Mother has Alzheimer's Disease and they are about the same mental age right now. Mother adores her great grandchildren and Savannah is so good with her.





























Savannah's favorite tractor. She wanted to play on it so bad!




































































































It was a wonderful day!

Halloween Digital Scrapbook Pages 2015

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I will be working on my Halloween digital scrapbook pages and will be posting them here as I finish each one. Here is the first one, our grandniece, Reagan. She was the cutest little candy corn.





She was the cutest little monkey!



Our grandnephew, Cash, is enjoying Halloween in these digital scrapbook pages.





Our grandniece, Savannah, as Cinderella.




Our grandnephew, Will, was a flying dragon for Halloween.



Our niece, Jenny, and her husband and children live in California. Jenny sent me photos of them carving their pumpkins and in their costumes (except I didn't get a picture of Brett dressed as a soldier).





Ryan was Spiderman.



Brooke was a cat for her daycare costume.



I thought this was a watermelon costume but I've now been told (too late!) that she was a Strawberry Shortcake. Oh well! At least I got the colors right!



That does it for this year's Halloween digital scrapbook pages. I really enjoyed doing them!

Old Daddy and Will

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My Dad has three great grandchildren and they call him "Old Daddy". Brett came up with that name. My sister took these photos of my Dad holding Will and rocking him in my Maternal Grandmother's rocking chair (she had it to rock my Mother in when she was a baby). They both fell asleep and took a little nap. This is the digital scrapbook page I made with those photos.



September In California

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Our niece, Jenny, and her family live in California. She and Kyle have three children and she was trying to take a Selfie of all of them with her to send to us. I created this digital scrapbook page of that Selfie.


Mystery Monday - Charles Lee Freeman

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Mystery Monday is a daily blogging prompt from Geneabloggers.com used by many genealogy bloggers to help them post content on their sites. Mystery Monday is where you can post about mystery ancestors or mystery records – anything in your genealogy and family history research which is currently unsolved.

Charles Lee Freeman was born 8/12/1918 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC to Felix Moten Freeman and Tabitha Freeman Connor Freeman. Felix Moten Freeman was born 1/16/1818 in Cathey's Creek, Rutherford County, NC and died 12/5/1888 in Gerton, Henderson County, NC. Tabitha Freeman Connor was born 10/2/1849 in North Carolina to Bushrod and Massa/Massy Conner. Bushrod Conner is my fifth great granduncle which is pretty distant. Charles Lee Freeman was their firstborn of four sons.

1) Charles Lee Freeman
2) Robert Ransom Freeman (DOB 3/11/1884 in Henderson County, NC; DOD 9/29/1945 in McDowell County, NC) married Addie Elzadie Lizzie Padgett.
3) Thomas Hendrick Freeman (DOB 3/17/1885 in Henderson County, NC; 5/3/1910 in Henderson County, NC)
4) Plenny Jay Freeman, Sr. (DOB 1/18/1887 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC; DOD 12/1/1930 in Rutherford County, NC) married Betha Naomia Maude Connor (daughter of William "Will" Mitchell Conner and Sarah Alza Leah Wilson).

About 1904, C. L. Freeman married Adeline Leah Huntley. Adeline Leah Huntley was born 4/14/1887 in Middle Fork, Henderson County, NC to Flavius Josephus Huntley and Martha Elizabeth Jane Connor. Adeline was my 2nd cousin 4 times removed (a distant relation).

Charles Lee Freeman and Adeline Leah Huntley had seven children:

1) Jessie Lee Freeman (DOB 7/19/1905 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC; DOD 4/20/1991 in Gerton, Henderson County, NC) married Malone Luther Sinclair.

2) Nora Myrtle Freeman (DOB 5/12/1907 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC; DOD 10/28/1995 in Henderson County, NC) married Clan Herman Searcy.

3) Boyce Thomas Freeman (DOB 8/31/1908 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC; DOD 3/17/2002 in Shelby, Cleveland County, NC) married Maude Estelle Hall.

4) Catherine Elizabeth Freeman (DOB 12/28/1911 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC; DOD 2/29/1980 in Rutherford County, NC) married Oscar Tolly McCurry.

5) Aileen Estelle Freeman (DOB 7/17/1913 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC; DOD 6/20/1985 in Henderson County, NC) married Clan Otis Lytle.

6) Charles "Charlie" Clan Freeman (DOB 5/13/1916 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC; DOD 5/26/1976 in Monette, Craighead County, AR) married Edna Mae Richardson.

7) Charlotte Peggy Freeman (DOB 5/13/1916 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC; DOD 2/14/1998 in Canton, Akron County, OH) married Claude Calvin Reed.

1910 U.S. Census of  Edneyville, Henderson County, North Carolina; Roll: T624_1115; Page: 3A; Enumeration District: 0074; FHL microfilm: 1375128, Family 38, Lines 1-6, "Charley L. Freeman"
Charley L. Freeman, Head, M(ale), W(hite), 28 yrs old (DOB 1882), 1st marriage, Married 6 yrs (DOM 1904), Born in NC, Both parents born in NC, Farmer, Can read and write, Rented farm
Leah Freeman, Wife, F, W, 22 yrs old (DOB 1888), 1st marriage, Married 6 yrs, 3 children with 3 still living, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC, Can read and write
Jessie Freeman, Daughter, F, W, 4 yrs old (DOB 1906), Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Nora Freeman, Daughter, F, W, 3 yrs old (DOB 1907), Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Boyce Freeman, Son, M, W, 1 yr 6/12 mos old (DOB 1909), Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Fadentia Freeman (sic), Mother, F, W, 60 yrs old (DOB 1850), Widowed, 5 children with 5 still living, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC, Can read and write
Adaline Conner, Head, F, W, 70 yrs old (DOB 1840), Widowed, 6 children with 6 still living, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC, Can read and write

Poor Charles L. Freeman didn't make it to the 1920 U.S. Census. He died on 1/11/1918 in the State Hospital in Morganton, Burke County, NC at the young age of 35 years old.

NC Death Certificate #273, Registration District #12-5147, Certificate #13, Charles Lee Freeman, DOD 1/11/1918 in State Hospital, Morganton, Burke County, NC
Length of residence in hospital 2 yrs, 1 mos, 25 days (11/17/1915), formerly lived in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC
Male, White, Married, DOB "Not obtainable" in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC, 37 yrs old (DOB 1881)
Occupation: Farmer and convict guard (Public roads)
Father: "Not obtainable"
Mother: "Not obtainable"
Informant: State hospital records, Morganton, NC
DOD 1/11/1918 at 8:30am
Cause of death: "Exhaustion of Dementia" (duration 2 yrs) *
Contributory: Diarrhea ("uremial" illegible)
Signed: F.B. Watkins, 6/11/1918, Morganton, NC
Buried: (blank)
Undertaker: Kinksey and Co,, Morganton, NC

* Dementia praecox was a term coined by Emil Kraepelin in the late 19th century and used to describe a set of symptoms and behaviors which would later be reclassified as schizophrenia. Dementia praecox usually presented itself between the late teenage years and early adulthood and those diagnosed with the condition faced a rapid and progressive deterioration of emotional and cognitive abilities.  There were many symptoms associated with dementia praecox, and a fairly detailed list can be found here.  Jesse Johnson may have experienced any combination of those symptoms, which included poor impulse control, hallucinations, delusions, paranoia, catatonia, and antisocial behavior.

From the Report of the Board of Directors and Superintendents of the State Hospitals For The Insane in Raleigh, Morganton and Goldsboro, NC for the Two Years Ending November 30, 1918, Showing the Number of Admissions and Discharges (including cures, improved, unimproved and deaths) the state hospital in Raleigh had 689 men and 761 women for a total of 1,450 patients treated during these two years. Of these 117 men died, 71 women died in those years. Charles L. Freeman would have been one of those men.

Of those here are some of the statistics that would include something like what Charles Lee Freeman had:
Dementia Praecox..........40 men, 26 women for a total of 70

The cause for insanity ranged from "Fright" to "Religion" but the largest category of cause was listed as "Unknown".

Occupations of those admitted to the insane asylum included fisherman, teacher, Civil Engineer, Editors, etc. For admitted females, the largest category was, "Housewife" and "Domestic". There were 3 female "Teachers and 32 females with no occupation. For admitted males, the largest category was "Farmer" with the next being a tie between "Laborer" and no occupation.

Under marital status, more women were married when they were committed but for men, more single men were committed.

Showing the Cause of Death of Those Who Died During the Past Two Years:
Exhaustion from senile dementia........ 18 men, 9 women, total 27
Exhaustion from depressive insanity...... 5 men, 0 women, total 5
Exhaustion from dementia praecox..... 7 men, 3 women, total 10
Pellagra........ 11 men, 18 women, total 29
etc

Showing the Form of Insanity of Those Who Died During the Past Two Years:
Manic depressive insanity...................... 11 men, 13 women, total 24
Involutional melancholia.................. 1 man, 1 woman, total 2
Senile dementia.................. 25 men, 16 women, total 41
Epilepsy.......................... 33 men, 16 women, total 49
Dementia Praecox................. 20 men, 10 women, total 30
Psychosis following pellagra............. 10 men, 11 women, total 21
etc

And, believe it or not, only 1 male and 0 females from Henderson County, NC were admitted in those two years. I guess that was Charles Freeman.

I include these statistics just to show that the cause of death on his death certificate was a generally accepted term even though I had never heard of it. Freeman had a diagnosis but was it caused by something physical or did something environmentally cause him to have a breakdown? Did his body somehow short circuit as in chemical or hormonal imbalances or some mental or phsyical disease that affected him. Or did something happen in his life that he couldn't cope with and it sent him into a breakdown?

He was buried at the Conner Cemetery, Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC.
Findagrave.com
Charles Lee Freeman
Birth: Aug. 12, 1882
Death: Jan. 11, 1918
Family links: Parents: Felix Moten Freeman (1838 - 1888)
Spouse: Leah Huntley Marlowe (1887 - 1961)
Children: Catherine Elizabeth Freeman McCurry (1911 - 1980)
Sibling: Plenty Jay Freeman (1887 - 1930)
Burial: Conner Cemetery. Bat Cave, Henderson County, North Carolina, USA
Created by: Rebecca
Record added: May 19, 2003
Find A Grave Memorial# 7461570

Obituary of Charles Freeman, French Broad Hustler, 1/17/1918, Image 2, "Bat Cave"
Bat Cave
Charles Freeman Dies at Morganton; Measles in State Camp; Farmers Optimistic over Snows; Social Activities and Visits
Bat Cave.-Charles Freeman, who has been an inmate in the Morganton hospital for several months, died in that institution on Friday. He was born and reared in this section and was always well thought of by his fellow associates. His mother, Mrs. Tibatha Williams, a sister, Mrs. J. Huntley, an two brothers, P.J. Freeman and R.R. Freeman survive him. He was the oldest child in the family. Several years ago, Mr. Freeman married Miss Leah Huntly, daughter of C. Huntly, who with seven children are left to mourn his loss. His body was brought here for burial, and interment was made in the family cemetery on Monday. A large gathering of relatives and friends followed the body to its final resting place. The sympathy of the community goes out to the grief stricken family.

The Mystery
According to his death certificate, he had been living at the hospital for 2 yrs, 1 mos, 25 days which would have put him entering the State Hospital for the Insane on 11/17/1915. Their last two children (twins) were born 5/13/1916, so this is possible. She could have been pregnant when he was committed. But his obituary indicates that he had only been there a few months. Which is it?

And, why was he committed to the State Hospital for the Insane at the young age of 33-35 years old?

He lost a brother in 1910 at the young age of 25 years old. Thomas Hendrick Freeman was married 3 years and had two children when he died on 5/3/1910 in McDowell County, NC where he was a farmer. Charles Freeman would have been 28 years old. Charles was the eldest and Thomas was the 3rd of 4 sons. According to Findagrave.com, Thomas was killed while crossing a fence and his gun discharged killing him. Could this have affected Charles Freeman and started a downward slide?

I thought I might find something in the local newspaper. On his death certificate, he was a "farmer and convict guard road crew". That would have been a guard on the chain gang road crew. I know from following newspaper stories on another distant relative in the same area, that all kinds of stories were in the local newspaper. Even when the sheriff's deputy escorted an insane person to the state hospital, it was often in the newspaper. So were any stories about the chain gangs. But I found nothing in the newspapers to indicate what happened to Charles Freeman other than his obituary. Did something happen while he was a guard that would explain why he was in the State Hospital (later, in 1959, it was changed to Broughton Hospital in honor of Governor J. Melville Broughton)? Was there an escape or an uprising against the guards? Was he attacked by prisoners? Or did it have anything to do with his job?

Maybe it had something to do with the big flood that happened in the summer of 1916, although that's later than his death certificate indicates.

The Flood of 1916 was the worst natural disaster in the history of Henderson County. Rain began July 3, 1916, and it rained for 10 days straight. Ten inches fells on July 15 alone in less than 12 hours due to early hurricanes. The French Broad River reached an estimated 21 feet, some 17 feet above flood stage. The Catawba River flooded also. In some locations along its path in North Carolina, the Catawba rose almost 23 feet beyond previous high-water marks.

On July 16, almost every dam in Western NC burst. The town of Hendersonville was an island surrounded by water on all sides. People in town had no way in or out.

The blowing of the whistles at the textile mills, the ringing of the fire bells in Hendersonville, the ringing of church bells throughout the county, awakened those people who were not already awakened by the landslides and noise of rushing water.

There were more than 300 mud slides.

From a Charlotte newspaper: “Highway 74 (Charlotte Highway) had just been completed. The road and all its bridges were totally washed away, as were the Gerton, Bearwallow, Bat Cave and Chimney Rock Post Offices. Middle Fork, between Gerton and Bat Cave, was one of the areas most affected by the flood. The sides of the mountains gave way; one farmer could only stand by and watch as the mountain collapsed and swept away his house. The farmer’s wife and all his children were killed. At least two who died in the flood are buried in Middle Fork Cemetery. Many other bodies were never found, and many people who lost everything could not afford to mark their loved ones’ graves.”

Eight people from Bat Cave died in the flood and Bat Cave was where Charles and Adaline Freeman lived. If his death certificate is incorrect as to how long he lived at the State Hospital, and it was more like 1 1/2 yrs, then the flood could have been a reason. And being in law, he might have been a first responder and seen things he could never forget?

Then there was WWI. I did not find any draft registration card for Charles L. Freeman. If he was healthy, he should have registered in 1917-1918 but I didn't find it. That might backup the death certificate's length of stay in the hospital as beginning before America entered the War.

Also the Spanish Flu pandemic began in the military due to the drafting of service men for World War I. The first outbreak in the military was in 1917 but it was late 1917 and into 1918 that it rolled through the civilian population.

His wife and all seven of their children survived to adulthood so I don't think an epidemic caused his commitment.

Could it have been something like Pellagra? Pellagra was a vitamin deficiency that could cause insanity in it's latter stages and it was prevalent in this time period. The cause wasn't found until the 1930's. Syphilis could also cause insanity in it's latter stage. But, doctors did know how to diagnose syphilis and pellagra. Many death certificates in this time period would have those for causes of death. So if it was some disease that caused his problems, wouldn't they have put that?

I guess the reason why I'm looking for a reason is that he was able to work and had a family at least until late 1915 or early 1916. Then something happens and he dies in the State Hospital of "exhaustion of dementia". Did something cause a mental breakdown or was it something organic that just didn't manifest until his 30's?

Will I ever know?

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Meanwhile, Leah Huntley Freeman raised her children.

1920 U.S. Census of Edneyville, Henderson County, North Carolina; Roll: T625_1305; Page: 2A; Enumeration District: 89; Image: 99, Family 23, Lines 10-17, "Leah A. Freeman", She is living beside Plenny J. Freeman (her brother-in-law)
Leah A. Freeman, Head, Owns farm, F(emale), W(hite), 32 yrs old (DOB 1888), Widowed, Can read and write, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC, Farmer
Jessie L. Freeman, Daughter, F, W, 14 yrs old (DOB 1906), Attends school, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Nora Freeman, Daughter, F, W, 12 yrs old (DOB 1908), Attends school, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Boyce Freeman, Son, M, W, 11 yrs old (DOB 1909), Attends school, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Cathrine Freeman (sic), Daughter, F, W, 9 yrs old (DOB 1911), Attends school, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Allien Freeman (sic), Daughter, F, W, 6 yrs old (DOB 1914), Attends school, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Charles L. Freeman, Son, M, W, 3 yrs 7/12 mos old (DOB 1916), Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Charlotte Freeman, Daughter, F, W, 3 yrs 7/12 mos old (DOB 1916), Born in NC, Both parents born in NC


1930 U.S. Census of Edneyville, Henderson County, North Carolina; Roll: 1698; Page: 6A; Enumeration District: 0005; Image: 974.0; FHL microfilm: 2341432, Family #104, Lines 1-7, "Leah Freeman"
Leah Freeman, Head, Owned farm, F(emale), W(hite), 42 yrs old (DOB 1888), Widowed, Married at age 17 yrs old (DOM 1905), Can read and write, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Boyce Freeman, Son, M, W, 21 yrs old (DOB 1909), Single, Married at age 21 yrs old (DOM 1930), Can read and write, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC, Truck driver for lumber plant
Estelle Freeman, Daughter-in-law, F, W, 18 yrs old (DOB 1912), Married at age 18 yrs old, Can read and write, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Catherine Freeman, Daughter, F, W, 19 yrs old (DOB 1911), Single, Can read and write, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Aileen Freeman, Daughter, F, W, 16 yrs old (DOB 1914), Single, Can read and write, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Charlotte Freeman, Daughter, F, W, 13 yrs old (DOB 1917), Single, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC
Charley Freeman, Son, M, W, 13 yrs old (DOB 1917), Single, Born in NC, Both parents born in NC

She remarried to Loyal Judson Marlowe (DOB 9/9/1885 in Buncombe County, NC; DOD 10/29/1962 in Henderson County, NC). She died at the age of 74 years old.

NC Death Certificate #17032, Registration District #45-70, Registrar's certificate #82, Leah Huntley Marlowe, DOD 6/7/1961 in Marg. Pardee Hospital, Hendersonville, Henderson County, NC
Usual residence: Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC
Female, White, Married to Lowell Judson Marlowe, DOB 4/14/1887 in Henderson County, NC, 74 yrs old
Occupation: Housewife
Father: Rev. F. Josephus Huntley, Mother: Elizabeth Connor (sic), Informant: Boyce T. Freeman, Shelby, NC
DOD 6/7/1961 at 4:30am
Cause of death: Ventricular fibrillation due to arteriosclerotic heart disease due to artheriosclerosis
Buried: 6/9/1961 in Middle Fork, Middle Fork Baptist Church Cemetery (Huntley Cemetery), Red Turn Lane, Bat Cave, Henderson, NC.

Findagrave.com
Adaline Leah Huntley Freeman Marlowe
Birth: Apr. 14, 1887, Henderson County, North Carolina, USA
Death: Jul. 7, 1961, Henderson County, North Carolina, USA
Family links:
Parents:
Flavius Josephus Huntley (1862 - 1933)
Elizabeth Jane Connor Huntley (1861 - 1952)
Spouses:
Charlie Lee Freeman (1882 - 1918)
Loyal Judson Marlowe (1885 - 1962)
Children: Catherine Elizabeth Freeman McCurry (1911 - 1980)
Siblings:
Edith Huntley Parker (1885 - 1948)
Hattie Lillie Huntley Connor (1889 - 1986)
John Bunyon Huntley (1892 - 1920)
Essie Huntley Reed (1894 - 1980)
Linerd Huntley (1898 - 1898)
Willerd Huntley (1898 - 1898)
William Elisha Huntley (1901 - 1964)
Burial: Middle Fork Cemetery, Hendersonville, Henderson County, North Carolina, USA
Created by: Ronald Halford
Record added: Jun 22, 2010
Find A Grave Memorial# 53982985

A Different Advent Calendar

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A different way to do an Advent Calendar. Print these, cut them into strips and place one for each day of December in your Advent Calendar. Then do these Random Acts of Kindness as suggested each day. For children, make it a game and then at the end give them a prize.

1. Give a compliment

2. Tape change to a vending machine

3. Send a Thank You card to a soldier. A Million Thanks, 17853 Santiago Blvd., #107-355, Villa Park, CA 92861

4. Take a coffee to your teachers

5. Pick up litter

6. Donate books. You can donate it to your library, leave it in a waiting room with a sticky note that says "Free", give it to a hospital or jail, donate it to charity.

7. Leave a happy note for someone

8. Donate a toy to charity

9. Leave a candy cane in the mailbox with a note “For you”

10. Call some family that lives faraway

11. Do a chore for someone without complaint

12. Each of you donate a canned good to a food pantry

13. Smile at everyone you meet today

14. Feed the birds

15. Mail a Thank You card to your Fire Department and/or Police Department

16. Put a sticky note with an encouraging message on a public restroom mirror

17. Give a dog treat to a neighbor’s dog

18. Help bring in the grocery bags

19. Use Windex and clean your loved one's windshield

20. Tell your family 3 things you are thankful for

21. Take your dishes to the sink

22. Give a neighbor a Christmas ornament (handmade or bought)

23. Write a letter to send to an elderly family member

24. Share with your siblings today: kind words, coffee, dessert, a joke, an encouraging text, etc.

25. You did 25 Random Acts of Kindness this month! Jesus loves you whether you did these random acts of kindness or not. But doing these things shows your love for Him. Today we celebrate Jesus’ birth and you have given Him 25 gifts throughout this month.

For my post on Christmas Advent Calendar ideas.

Brett Lost His First Tooth

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Our grandnephew, Brett, lost his first tooth this week. I documented this event on this digital scrapbook page.


English Cottage Home Decorating

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When you think of an English home, we think of thatched cottages...


...square brick or rock country farm homes...




...and the elegant manor homes...


We know, realistically, that British homes are just as diverse as American homes but we like to stereotype. How do you decorate in English Country or English Cottage? From what I found on the Internet you can pick some things out that would give you guidance.

We tend to think of the English cottage as being very old and families have lived many generations in them so there would be layers of stuff. Let's think about what we think of as English Country.

Villages
Farms
Fox hunting
Horses
Foxes
Horseback riding boots
Crops
English saddles
Dogs
Rain
Umbrellas
Rain coats (or slickers)
Wellington boots
Walking sticks
Bicycles
Baskets
Decorative plates
Bric-a-brac
Pictures
Books
Leather
Chintz
Low beams and low ceilings
Fireplaces
Aga stoves
Cozy, snug
Ale
Taverns
Tea
Teapots
Wallpaper
Tweeds
Club chairs

This is a short list of the things you think of when you think of English Country. Here are photos that depict English Cottage home decor or English Country home decor.




































































































































Now let's look at some English Manor home decorating ideas. Manor homes bring to mind TALL ceilings, large rooms and more formal decor.
































Twenty Things Most People Forget To Clean

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When you think of cleaning, you generally think of cleaning the bathroom, dusting, vacuuming, mopping, doing the dishes. And the majority of our cleaning time is spent on these things. But there are some secret things that a lot of us forget.

Growing up, my Dad didn't do any cleaning. That wasn't his thing. His wife and 3 daughters did it. My Dad was a wonderful father and great husband, hard working and capable. He did his part going to work every day, doing repairs around the house, working in the yard, building or remodeling, keeping a garden. But cleaning was one thing he didn't do and therefore has no training in it. My Mother has dementia now and it rests on him. So, now I'm sure he wishes he had learned some of this stuff.

Here are twenty household things to add to your list to clean

1) Fans. You would think that running fans all the time would mean that dust and dirt wouldn't be able to adhere to it. But, as we all know, fans get real dusty and dirty. So when they are on, they are directing dust and allergens in whatever direction you have it pointed.

How do you clean them? The box fans will have phillips head screws all around the grill which makes it a pain to disassemble to clean. I love these round Lasko fans. No screws! You can disassemble pretty easily. Then I take the blades and the grills to the bathtub. With hot water, antibacterial dish detergent and soft brush you can have it clean in a couple of minutes. Rinse and re-assemble. Pretty easy, it just takes a few minutes. My fans need to be cleaned about every 3 months. I run them a lot.


2. Lamp shades. My brass lamps get Windexed every time I dust. The lamp shades get vacuumed about every 3 months. You take your vacuum cleaner and put the brush on the end, open the handle opening so it reduces the suction a little. Then vacuum gently. Every once in awhile you can take the shade off the lamp and take it to the sink. Using a soft bristle brush, warm water and a little Woolite, you can wash the shade. Then use the spray nozzle to gently rinse. Let sit for about 10 mins in the dish drain to let most of the water drip off. Then it's ready to be put it back on the lamp. Turn the lamp on and the heat from the bulb will quickly dry it.




3) Chandelier and other light fixtures. Every spring I clean my dining room chandelier. You can get chanelier cleaner. I got mine at Lowes. It's fast drying. I either put white cotton socks on my hands or use a cotton rag. Make sure the light is turned off. I place a beach towel on the table underneath the chandelier and then spritz it good with the chandelier cleaner and start polishing each cup and crystal. Since the spray dries quickly you may have to reapply to sections. Don't forget to polish the bulbs. My chandelier usually takes 10 mins to clean.

For other light fixtures you may have to remove globes. Turn light fixture off, wait for it to cool. Remove the bulb, twist the screws that hold the globes in place and remove the globes. Wash them in dish detergent in the sink, rinse and dry. Spritz Chandelier cleaner (or Windex) on the brass/chrome and polish. If your fixture is painted or matte finish, use a damp sponge to wipe the dust off. Put the globes back on, tighten the screws, put in the lightbulbs and now it should gleam and sparkle.


4) Televisions.  Your TV screens can get quite dusty but so does the back and the pedestal. For all plastic parts, just use a damp rag to dust. For the screens itself, use special screen cleaner. You can get it from Amazon.com, home improvement store, an electronics big box store, maybe even Walmart. Use a soft cotton rag and the screen cleaner and gentle polish the screen of your flat screen TV, or computer monitor. You should also use a damp rag to dust any other electronics such as DVD players, computers, printers, clocks, speakers, etc.




5) Stove vent hoods.  Mine is stainless steel. I have stainless steel cleaner that I got at the home improvement store in the cleaning department. First I remove the vented plates. I use a good degreaser like Mean Green to remove grease. I spray the vented plates good and rinse off with hot water. I do it often enough and the degreaser is so good that it's all I have to do. For the rest of the vent hood, spritz with degreaser and wipe down. Then be sure to thoroughly rinse your sponge or dishrag and go over the vent hood again. Rinsing each time, you should wipe it several more times to get as much of the degreaser off the hood. You don't want to leave a film of the degreaser on it. Then wipe dry and use the stainless steel cleaner to finish it off. This stainless steel cleaner helps with the fingerprint problem and leaves it looking uniformly polished.




6) Trash cans. A lot of people don't think about washing their trashcans. I happen to have white trash cans and it helps me see problems like drips, stains, coffee grounds, etc.

I take the can out, use some Mean Green (or Dollar Tree's Totally Awesome) cleaner and give it a good wash. If your can is in bad shape, try taking it out and use the garden hose or take it to the bathtub. Once you've cleaned it up and rinsed it, use some paper towels to dry it thoroughly. Put a fresh trash bag in. In my case I have an apparatus in my kitchen cabinet that holds the trash can and it rolls in and out like a drawer. So, while the trashcan is out, I clean the pull, the sliders and the floor of the cabinet. If it needs vacuuming, I do that. Otherwise it just takes a damp rag to wipe everything down.


7) Light switches. We replaced all our light switch covers and outlet covers with new brass ones when we moved in. So I use glass cleaner to polish them when they need it.

It's particularly important to clean them with an antibacterial spray if there is sickness in your house. How many hands touch those switches in a day? So they can get pretty germy.


8) Doorknobs. Doorknobs can also be pretty germy. People don't even think about them as they go in and out. Use window cleaner to polish them or spray with a germicidal spray if there is sickness in your home.




9) Microwave. Some people don't seem to see the mess in their microwaves but it's there and it shouldn't be. The first tip is to ALWAYS cover whatever you put in the microwave. That takes care of a good bit of the splatter problems. It's so simple, just put a paper towel over it. But there are going to sometimes be spills and splatters. So the second tip is to put a cup of water in the microwave and bring it to a boil in the microwave. This lets steam loosen up any food. Then wipe it out thoroughly. If you have a rotating platter, take it out and wash it in dish detergent. If your microwave has a stainless steel interior like mine, you can spritz with window cleaner and polish.




10) The washing machine detergent dispenser.  This drawer can get pretty goopy with all the liquid detergents, softener, etc. It can even get mildewed. Use a degreaser and a brush and sponge to clean it.

While you are at it, wipe down the entire appliance: top, front, sides... whatever you can reach. It gets dusty. For the front loading washing machines, you need to regularly check the lint catcher AND run a load with a washing machine cleaner. No clothes, just the special cleaner. They tend to mildew around the door seal which can cause musty smelling clothes. Use some bleach on a rag and try to clean the rubber seal. Once you are through with the washing machine, go over to the dryer. Pull out the lint screen and remove all lint. Then take it to the sink and gently wash it with a vinegar and water solution. This gets rid of the softener buildup on it. You can purchase a long, hard bristled, flexible brush at Walmart. Use this to stick down in the lint area to loosen any lint that is building up in the machine. This lint can catch on fire. Once you've loosened it up, get the vacuum cleaner and put the wand on the end and stick it in the lint area to vacuum out the lint you loosened up. Be sure to wipe the dryer down on the outside and around the door inside. If you have a long dryer vent hose, keep an eye on it as well. Build up of lint can be a problem. Mine happens to be rather short. But if your vent hose is long, you may need to take it apart and clean it or replace it to protect yourself from fire.


11) Remotes. Another germ catcher. I use a damp sponge and an antibacterial kitchen cleaner (usually bleach based). I spritz it on the sponge and thoroughly wipe down the remotes. If someone is sick and using the phone, remotes, doorknobs, etc then you want to do this once a day until they are well again to keep from spreading the germs. You don't want to submerge these remotes or get them so wet that it ruins them. Just wipe them gently and place them upside down until they are dry.




12) Can openers. As you open cans, the liquid in the cans will get on the can opener pieces. They need to be cleaned regularly. The handle part that has the blade on it, can be removed from the appliance itself. From there you can put it in the dishwasher or wash them in your sink with dish detergent. Be sure to wipe the wheel too and give it a good wipe down. It takes about a minute.




13) Builtin cabinets. Whether it's your bathroom or kitchen cabinets, or other builtins, they will need to be cleaned. Twice a year I clean all my cabinets. Then I wipe down spots as I see them in between times. For my wooden cabinets (that are not painted), I use a little Murphy's Oil Soap and water. I use a degreaser on the handles. If they are intricate, you can use a little brush on them. If using the degreaser, be sure to rinse your sponge and wipe the handles over and over again a few times to remove any film of cleaner. Otherwise, every time you use the drawer, the remaining degreaser will just pick up dirt from your hands and leave it on the cabinet or drawer pull. If there is illness in your home, spray your cabinet pulls once a day with Lysol spray to keep the germs down.

After cleaning the handles and wiping down the doors and fronts, I let them dry. Then, once a year, I apply an oil for wood on them. If your cabinets are painted, then use a little cleaner in some water to wipe them down with.


14) All the items on your bathroom sink. Toothbrush holders, soap dish or liquid soap dispenser, perfume bottles or other makeup and dispensing bottles and jars. They get so dusty so quick in the bathroom due to lint from towels and clothes, powder, hairspray, etc. I make a dish pan of soapy water and start dumping things in it and washing them all down like I'm washing dishes. If there is illness in your family, pour some isopropyl alcohol over your toothbrushes once a day to keep from getting sick or to keep from re-infecting yourself.


15) Hairbrush and Combs.  If your brush is full of hair, it's time to replace it or clean it. You may need to do it more often if you use hairspray or gels. It builds up on the brush and combs. Take a comb and use it to begin pulling the hair out. Toss the hair in a trashcan (NOT down the drain unless you want a hair clog). Once the hair is removed, take a container and put hot water and some shampoo in it and place your brush and combs in it. Let them soak. Then scrub them clean, rinse and let dry.


16) Towel bars and toilet paper holders. Use an antibacterial kitchen cleaner to clean with a damp rag or sponge. Dry off with paper towels. If they are metal, use some window cleaner and spritz them down and polish.


17)  Showerhead. Anything in the water areas of your bathroom can have bacteria growing because it regularly gets wet or damp and the warm water can breed bacteria and mildew. It can get in the air via the steam from a hot shower and therefore into your sinuses. So regularly use a vinegar/water solution and a brush. Scrub your shower head.


18) Refrigerator seal. It goes without saying that a refrigerator will get dirty and need cleaning. But when you clean it, don't overlook the seal around the door. It can get mildew. Use a bleach and water solution and a sponge. The sponge seems to get in the folds of the seal easier than a rag or wipe. Gently pull the folds apart and apply the bleach/water solution to it. Go all the way around. If you find any parts that are pulling away from the door, you might want to glue it back.


19) Hanging pictures. Use glass cleaner to polish the glass. Spray it on your paper towel and not directly on the glass. If the frame is wooden, then use a microfiber cloth and spray some furniture polish on it and wipe the frame. If it's painted or metal, use a damp sponge. You want your pictures to sparkle. If your picture has been professionally framed, then it is sealed and the insides of the picture frame won't get dusty for a long time. But if it's not professionally sealed, it can get dusty inside the frames. So every now and again, you may need to carefully take it apart and polish the inside of the glass.


20) Upholstery.  You need to regularly (for a heavy used room, I suggest every 2 weeks) to vacuum your upholstery. Take the cushions off and vacuum the cushions, under the cushions, in the crevices, the backs and sides. Be sure to vacuum UNDER the couch and chairs too. Take a heavy trash bag, place the pillows in the trash bag and put the vacuum cleaner handle inside. Gather the trash bag around the handle tightly and turn on the vacuum cleaner. This will suck out the air and begin to compress the pillows. You should be able to get it them nearly compressed flat. Then release and plump the pillows. When you are through vacuuming the upholstery, spritz with Febreze and let dry.

Mystery Monday - What Happened to Great Aunt Mabel Reese?

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Mystery Monday is a daily blogging prompt at Geneabloggers.com and used by many genealogy bloggers to help them post content on their sites. Closely related to Madness Monday only these missing ancestors might not cause madness! Mystery Monday is where you can post about mystery ancestors or mystery records – anything in your genealogy and family history research which is currently unsolved. This is a great way to get your fellow genealogy bloggers to lend their eyes to what you’ve found so far and possibly help solve the mystery.

My mystery today is my Maternal Grandfather's missing sister.

Mabel Kelith Tobiatha Reese was the 7th of 9 children, 8 of whom survived to adulthood. She was born 4/21/1919 in Rosman, Transylvania County, NC to Bailey Bright Reese (DOB 1/26/1878 in Madison County, NC; DOD 12/10/1949 in Marion, McDowell County, NC) and Lillian Vianna Conner (DOB 1/9/1887 in Madison County, NC; DOD 1/15/1984 in Marion, McDowell County, NC).

Bailey Bright Reese and Lilly Conner Reese had 9 children. Their first child was Minnie Louesta "Estie" Reese who was born in 1907 but she died in 1909. The rest of their surviving children were Rev. Paul McCoy Reese (married Louise Saunders), Rev. Wilford William Reese (married Geneva "Ginnie" Margaret Lamb), Charles Beauford Reese (married Jenny Young), Margaret Alice Reese (married Joe Edgar Young), Gertrude "Trudy" Lillian Reese (married Rass Samuel Young), Mabel Tobiatha Reese, Jeter Clifford Reese (married Marcia Norman) and Ann Grace Reese (married Charles Jackson Beck).



Mabel Reese married Walter Baird Phillips. Walter was born 4/1/1917 in Madison County, NC. They married 6/22/1941 in McDowell County, NC. They had one son named David Larry Phillips (DOB 7/19/1942 in Marion, McDowell County, NC; DOD 7/5/1979 in Miami, Dade County, FL) who married Dorothy Faith Christian.  Mabel left Walter Phillips and their son, David, and they got a divorce in 1947 in Volusia County, FL.

After that, what we know dwindles down to nothing. My Mother's brother remembered his Aunt Mabel coming to visit them with a man that she presented as her husband. The only thing my Uncle remembered was that he was a former baseball player (which, of course, got the attention of my Uncle who was just a boy) and his last name might have been Lucinger. They had a good visit and Mabel was fun to be around. But they evidently didn't stay together either. I assume they divorced. But I haven't had any luck finding a Lucinger.

Mabel was a severe alcoholic. On her last visit back to Asheville, NC to see her mother and siblings, she stayed with a niece and ended up drinking everything in the bathroom cabinet and had to be rushed to the hospital. The family remembers the visit and said she was delightful and fun but evidently she couldn't control her need for alcohol.

The last time they ever heard from her was a letter dated 2/17/1970. It was written for her evidently because the return address is for a Maurice Farney and it's signed "Maurice".

Her son contacted my Grandfather (his maternal Uncle) at one point, before he died, to see if any of the family knew where she was. He said his father had told him that she was in Australia at some point, and the letter mentions something about being back from "Astralia" and "in the bush"? But the letter is barely legible or coherent. Mabel had signed her photo above and her handwriting was neat and legible. According to the 1940 U.S. Census, Maurice had an 8th grade education so I'm not sure why the letter was so poorly written.

Here is a photo of the envelope and letter:




Here is a transcription:

Maurice A. Farnly
921 So Grand Ave
L.A. Calif
.....................................Mrs.B.B. Reese (Her mother)
.....................................c/o Mrs Joe Young
....................................Home SC
....................................Asheville

(Was corrected by post office)

2-17-70
Hi Mom
Just got back from Astralia and in the bush co we just covered. I write Darling loves you so much and is so glad to be home. Hope your feeling OK
Alice, Paul and Wilford – Mom says say Hello to Alice and Grace Wilford
Please write your big sis.
She misses you people.
Thank
Maurice

That's all we have. After this, she dropped off the earth as far as we know. Someone suggested looking up Maurice. I found all I could on Maurice at Ancestry.com but no mention of how he knew Aunt Mabel. Were they married? Boyfriend/girlfriend? Or was it just a friendship or even a casual acquaintance? Maybe she asked her landlord to write the letter for her or something casual like that? I just don't know. Here is what I found on Maurice.

Although the return address looks like "Maurice Farnley" it is actually Maurice A. Farney.

Maurice A. Farney (DOB 11/6/1909 in Sault St Marie, Chippewa County, Michigan to Walter Clark and Ida Alice McKelvey Farney). He married Blanche Monroe Henry (DOB 9/6/1907 in Sault, St. Marie County, MI to Philip Monroe and Kate Emma Duffy; DOD 1/20/1948 in Los Angeles County, CA) on 6/20/1931 in Sault St. Marie, Chippewa County, MI and had Maurice Farney, Jr. (DOB 10/31/1940 in Hollywood, CA; DOD 9/1976 in Santa Ana Canyon, Orange County, CA), Frederick Clare Farney (DOB 7/15/1939, DOD 2/2/1972 in Los Angeles County, CA, married Susan Kay Bair) and and Walter C. Farney (DOB 10/31/1940 in Hollywood, CA; DOD 9/1976 in Orange County, CA, married Sally J. Berault).

1910 U.S. Census of Sault St marie Ward 4, Chippewa County, Michigan; Roll: T624_641; Page: 8B; Enumeration District: 0031; FHL microfilm: 1374654, Family 156, Lines 98-100, "Walter Farney"
Walter Farney, Head, M(ale), W(hite), 40 yrs old (DOB 1870), Married 2 yrs (DOM 1908), Born in Canada English, Father born in Canada English, Mother born in Scotland, Engineer locomotive
Alice Farney, Wife, F, W, 24 yrs old (DOB 1886), Married 2 yrs, 1 child with 1 still living, Born in MI, Both parents born in Canada English
Maurice A. Farney, Son, M, W, 5/12 mos old (DOB 1909), Born in MI, Father born in Canada English, Mother born in MI


1920 U.S. Census of Seymour Rd, Sault Sainte Marie, Chippewa County, Michigan; Roll: T625_761; Page: 8A; Enumeration District: 37; Image: 428, Family 162, Lines 44-47, "Walter C. Farney"
Walter C. Farney, Head, Owns home with mortgage, M(ale), W(hite), 50 yrs old (DOB 1870), Married, Can read and write, Born in Canada, Both parents born in Canada, Locomotive Engineer for Carbide Co.
Alice Farney, Wife, F, W, 34 yrs old (DOB 1886), Married, Can read and write, Born in MI, Both parents born in Canada
Morris Farney (sic, Maurice Farney), Son, M, W, 10 yrs old (DOB 1910), Attends school, Born in MI, Father born in Canada, Mother born in MI
Robert Farney, Son, M, W, 1 yr 11/12 mos old (DOB 1908), Born in MI, Father born in Canada, Mother born in MI


1930 U.S. Census of Sault Sainte Marie, Chippewa County, Michigan; Roll: 980; Page: 1B; Enumeration District: 0021; Image: 955.0; FHL microfilm: 2340715, Family 29, Lines 97-100, "Walter Farney"
Walter Farney, Head, Owns home valued at $800, Owned radio set, M(ale), W(hite), 61 yrs old (DOB 1869), Married at age 31 yrs old (DOM 1900), Can read and write, Born in Canada English, Both parents born in Scotland, Engineer Carbide Co.
Alice Farney, Wife, F, W, 45 yrs old (DOB 1885), Married at age 23 yrs old, Can read and write, Born in Michigan, Both parents born in Canada English
Moresie Farney (sic, Maurce Farney), Son, M, W, 20 yrs old (DOB 1910), Single, Can read and write, Born in MI, Father born in Canada English, Mother born in MI, No occupation
Robert H. Farney, Son, M, W, 12 yrs old (DOB 1918), Single, Attends school, Born in MI, Father born in Canada English, Mother born in MI, No occupation


1940 U.S. Census of West 12th St, Los Angeles, Los Angeles County, California; Roll: T627_392; Page: 13A; Enumeration District: 60-957, Family 428, Lines 35-38, "Maurice Farney"
Maurice Farney, Rented house for $16, Head, M(ale), W(hite), 30 yrs old (DOB 1910), Married, Attended school thru 8th grade, Born in Michigan, Lived in Sault St. Marie, Michigan in 1935, Embalmer in undertaking, Income $500
Blanche Farney, Wife, F, W, 32 yrs old (DOB 1908), Married, Attended school thru 8th grade, Born in Michigan, Lived in Sault St. Marie, Michigan in 1935, Waitress in restaurant
Maurice Farney Jr, Son, M, W, 8 yrs old (DOB 1932), Single, Attends school, Attended school thru 2nd grade, Born in Michigan, Lived in Sault St. Marie, Michigan in 1935
Fredrick C. Farney, Son, M, W, 9/12 mos old (DOB 1939), Born in CA


1940 California, Voter Registrations, 1900-1968
Maurice Farney, 1358 1/2 N. Mansfield Ave, Los Angeles, Los Angeles County, CA, Installator, R(epublican)
Mrs. Blanche Farney, 1358 1/2 N. Mansfield Ave, Los Angeles, Los Angeles County, CA, Housewife, R(epublican)


Los Angeles County CA Archives Military Records.....Army Enlistees WW2
DATE OF ENLISTMENT YEAR OF SER. NO. NAME PLACE OF ENLISTMENT DAY MONTH YEAR BIRTHPLACE BIRTH GRADE BRANCH COMPONENT OF THE ARMY
39579250, FARNEY, MAURICE A, FT MACARTHUR, SAN PEDRO, CALIFORNIA, 3/21/1944, MICHIGAN, 9, Private, No branch assignment, Selectees (Enlisted Men)

Maurice A Farney
Los Angeles County, California
March 21, 1944
Selectees
Private 31 - 35

Name: Maurice A Farney
Birth Year: 1909
Race: White, citizen (White)
Nativity State or Country: Michigan
State of Residence: California
County or City: Los Angeles
Enlistment Date: 21 Mar 1944
Enlistment State: California
Enlistment City: Fort Macarthur San Pedro
Branch: No branch assignment
Branch Code: No branch assignment
Grade: Private
Grade Code: Private
Term of Enlistment: Enlistment for the duration of the War or other emergency, plus six months, subject to the discretion of the President or otherwise according to law
Component: Selectees (Enlisted Men)
Source: Civil Life
Education: 1 year of high school
Civil Occupation: Semiskilled occupations in stoneworking, n.e.c.
Marital Status: Married
Height: 00
Weight: 000

California, Death Index, 1940-1997
Name: Blanche Farney
[Blanche Monroe]
Social Security #: 550283055
Gender: Female
Birth Date: 6 Sep 1907
Birth Place: Michigan
Death Date: 20 Jan 1948
Death Place: Los Angeles
Mother's Maiden Name: Duffy
Father's Surname: Monroe

Maurice moved around a lot according to these Voter Registration lists.

California Voter Registrations 1900-1968, 1944, Los Angeles County, CA, Roll 61, Maurice A. Farney, 3914 S. Dresker Ave, Sand Blaster, R(epublican)

California Voter Registrations 1900-1968, 1948, Los Angeles County, CA, Roll 74, Maurice A. Farney, 1454 N. Doheny Dr, DS

California Voter Registrations 1900-1968, 1950, Los Angeles County, CA, Roll 80, Maurice A. Farney, 940 S. Figeuroa St, R(epublican)

California Voter Registrations 1900-1968, 1952, Los Angeles County, CA, Roll 87, Maurice A. Farney, 1964 1/2 Park Grove Ave, R(epublican)

California Voter Registrations 1900-1968, 1954, Los Angeles County, CA, Roll 95, Maurice A. Farney, 1964 1/2 Park Grove Av, R(epublican)

California Voter Registrations 1900-1968, 1960, Los Angeles County, CA, Roll 147, Maurice A. Farney, 319 W. 2nd St, R(epublican)

California Voter Registrations 1900-1968, 1962, Los Angeles County, CA, Roll 169, Maurice A. Farney, 605 W. 27th St, R(epublican)


California, Death Index, 1940-1997
Name: Maurice A Farney
Social Security #: 371031373
Gender: Male
Birth Date: 6 Nov 1909
Birth Place: Michigan
Death Date: 7 May 1972
Death Place: Los Angeles

U.S., Department of Veterans Affairs BIRLS Death File, 1850-2010
Name: Maurice Farney
Gender: Male
Birth Date: 6 Nov 1909
Death Date: 7 May 1972
SSN: 371031373
Branch 1: ARMY
Enlistment Date 1: 20 Mar 1944
Release Date 1: 20 Feb 1946

U.S., Social Security Death Index, 1935-2014
Name: Maurice Farney
SSN: 371-03-1373
Last Residence: 90073 Los Angeles, Los Angeles, California, USA
BORN: 6 Nov 1909
Died: May 1972
State (Year) SSN issued: Michigan (Before 1951)

FindAGrave.com
Maurice A. Farney
Birth: Nov. 6, 1909
Death: May 7, 1972
Burial: Los Angeles National Cemetery, Los Angeles, Los Angeles County, California, USA
Plot: 215, 15/RF
Imported from: US Veteran's Affairs
Record added: Mar 04, 2000
Find A Grave Memorial# 3706891

What I do know is that Aunt Mabel came from a good, stable, loving family. All her siblings grew up to do well and had families. She was missed by her mother and siblings, her son and his family. We want to know what happened to her and where she is resting. It's possible that she died as a Jane Doe and we will never know. But if there is a way to find her, we want to know what happened and where her final resting place is. She may have been alone in Los Angeles, but she had family that cared about what happened to her living in NC and SC (and her son in FL).

If anyone comes across this blog post and has any further information on her or can solve this mystery, please contact me at Mom25dogs@gmail.com. If you have any suggestions about how to search, please contact me. I live in SC so I'm a long way from Los Angeles, CA. I have no idea how, or who, to contact to search for a California death certificate (I have not found one for her per CA Death Indexes on Ancestry.com), obituary notices, etc. All I have access to is Ancestry.com and I haven't found her using that and I'm pretty proficient using Ancestry.com. If you can help, thank you in advance!

Tuesday's Tip - How To Search California Death Indexes and Death Certificates

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Tuesday’s Tip is a daily blogging prompt at Geneabloggers.com used by many genealogy bloggers to help them post content on their sites. What advice would you give to another genealogist or family historian, especially someone just starting out? Remember when you were new to genealogy? Wasn’t it great to find tips and tricks that worked for others? Post your best tips at your genealogy blog on Tuesday’s Tip.

I was trying to research a missing relative recently and the last we had heard of her was a letter in 1970 from Los Angeles, CA. So I was trying to use Ancestry.com to find a death certificate. But all Ancestry.com has is the CA Death Indexes and that doesn't do anything but give you a date of death and the death certificate number. I went to a Facebook page called Random Acts of Genealogical Kindness - RAOGK USA. I gave them the information and they made suggestions. One lady told me how to use FamilySearch.org to look up death certificates. It's a little complicated so she kindly gave me the instructions on how to do it. So this is HER tip:

To find the death certificates for L.A. County on FamilySearch, it can be a little tricky. They are not indexed so you cannot use the search engine.  L.A. County has death certificates thru 1960. L.A. City has d/c's thru 1963.

In a nutshell, you need to browse images but don't worry, you don't have to search every single page. There are index books with d/c #'s. Once you find that number, you can find the d/c - they are in numerical order.

1. Click on the map and choose California. Below the search engine is a list of CA collections. Scroll down & click on "California, County Birth and Death Records, 1800-1994".

2. You'll see another page to search by name - forget thatand look below where it says "View images in this collection". Click on browse images.

3. You should see a list of counties and towns to choose from. Los Angeles is for L.A. County, outside of the city. Los Angeles, Los Angeles is for deaths in the city. Sometimes I check both.

4. After choosing L.A., it will bring up the books of death certs by year and; by number. First, you need to find the number of DC by searching in one of the many index books included in this list toward bottom. Find year you need. The last names are indexed in alphabetical order (by 1st letter of last name) so after jumping around to different pages, you should find the page you need. Most are handwritten with name and date of death and each has a death cert #. Write it down.

5. After you have the d/c number, go back to list of all books, find the book of death certificates for that year and for the number range you need. They are in numerical order so take a guess and start searching different page numbers until you've found the number you need.

Thank you, Tricia Lemon Putnam and all those who have tried to help me on Random Acts of Genealogical Kindness - RAOGK USA!!!

Fifteen More Things That You Can Throw Away

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Here are 15 more things that you can throw away and never miss. Such freedom from useless items!
  1. Old shoes
  2. Old used toothbrushes
  3. Mismatched socks
  4. Expired food
  5. Expired medication
  6. Makeup and perfume that is over a year old
  7. Old electronics
  8. Unused hangers. I use a different color of plastic hanger in each closet so I know where it belongs. So if I get wire hangers or any that don't match my hanger system, I throw them away.
  9. Old towels. If they are getting frayed, see through, and full of holes, it's time to toss or give them away to a local vet or dog groomer.
  10. Unmatched sheets. Do you have a flat sheet with no matching fitted sheet or vice versa? Only keep your matching sheets that are in good condition. You don't need more than two sets for each bed in your home.
  11. Pens that don't work
  12. Kitchen utensils and appliances that you don't use or are duplicates
  13. Manual and warranties from things you no longer own
  14. Old school textbooks
  15. Anything that is broken

Amanuesis Monday - William Albert Conner and Elizabeth Dalton

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William Albert Conner, Sr. would be my fifth Great Grandfather. Here is the line:
William Albert Conner, Sr.
....Isaac Jackson Conner
........Erwin McCoy Conner
............McCoy Conner
................Lillian Vianna Conner Reese
....................Wilford William Reese
........................Eleanor Elaine Reese Huneycutt
............................ME!

William Albert Conner, Sr. was born about 1796 in Bills Creek, Rutherford County, NC.

His parents were possibly  George Conner, Sr (DOB About 1775 in Mecklenburg County NC; DOD 1840-1850 in Rutherford County, NC) and Susannah Doss (DOB 9/17/1785 in NC; DOD 1/5/1850 in Rutherford County, NC). I am not sure about who his parents were. Some family trees on the Internet have his parents as Samuel James Conner and Nancy Swearingen. I do not know at this time who his parents are. If you know, and have sources for your information, please contact me at Mom25dogs@gmail.com.

William Albert Conner, Sr. married Elizabeth Dalton. Elizabeth Dalton was born about 1796 in NC. At this time, I do not know who her parents were. They had 5 children that I know of:

1) Isaac Jackson Conner "Jack" (DOB 1817-1820 in Rutherford County, NC; DOD After 1871 in Rutherford County, NC) married Adaline Thomason (DOB 1816-1826 in Rutherford County, NC; DOD After 1870 in Rutherford County, NC). They had James Conner, Erwin McCoy Conner, Joseph Washington Conner, Thomas Conner, Martha Conner Wilson, William M. Conner, Emily Conner and Ursilla Conner Wilson.

2) Martha Conner "Patsy" (DOB About 1826 in Rutherford County, NC; DOD After 1880 in Chimney Rock, Rutherford County, NC) married Marcus Rollin Crawford "Mark" (DOB 1820-1822 in Rutherford County, NC; DOD After 1870 in Chimney Rock, Rutherford County, NC). They had Louisa Ida Jane Crawford Grant, Felix M. Crawford, James Crawford, John C. Crawford, Rachel Manerva Crawford Conner, Mary Martha Markannas Crawford Hall "Polly", Rhoda Malinda Crawford Hall.

3) Sarah Alta Conner (DOB About 1833 in Bills Creek, Rutherford County, NC; DOD After 1910 in Rutherford County, NC) married Noah Wesley Dalton (DOB About 1832 in Bills Creek, Rutherford County, NC; DOD 12/24/1863 in Camp Douglas, Cook County, IL). C.S.A. NC 62nd Infantry Regiment, Co. F, Private

4) Johnathon Conner (DOB 2/14/1834 in Bills Creek, Rutherford County, NC; DOD 3/28/1906 in Henderson County, NC) married Nancy Adaline Griggs (DOB 7/10/1838 in NC; DOD 2/26/1935 in Edneyville, Henderson County, NC). They had Marcus Alexander Conner, Martha Elizabeth Jane Connor Huntley, Joseph Grayson Conner, William Albert Conner, Elizabeth Ann/Jane Connor Hill.

5) William Albert Conner, Jr. "Billy" (DOB About 1838 in Bills Creek, Rutherford County, NC; DOD 3/4/1893 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC) married Elizabeth Harriet Williams (DOB 3/30/1836 in Henderson County, NC; DOD 10/23/1911 in Bat Cave, Henderson County, NC). They had George Washington Conner "General", Laura E. Connor Wilson, Alice May Connor Wilson, Cynthia Susan Luella Connor Oates "Ella", Marcus Napoleon Connor "Mark""Ian", William Mitchell Connor "Will", Jeanette Vernetta Bessie Connor Huntley "Nettie", Mary Jane Connor Freeman "Mollie", Samuel Rutledge Connor, Thomas Burgin Connor "Tom", Jerome Conner, Naomia Connor Gaston, Hattie T. Connor Freeman.
He served in the C.S.A. NC 25th Inf, Co. B.
1830 U.S. Census of Rutherford County, North Carolina, Series: M19; Roll: 124; Page: 447; Family History Library Film: 0018090, "William Conners"
Name: William Conners
[William Croner]
Home in 1830 (City, County, State): Rutherford, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - 5 thru 9: 2 (Isaac Jackson Conner would have been 3-13 yrs old.)
Free White Persons - Males - 10 thru 14: 2 (? ?)
Free White Persons - Males - 30 thru 39: 1 (William Albert Conner would have been 34 yrs old)
Free White Persons - Females - 5 thru 9: 1 (Martha Patsy Conner would have been 4 yrs old)
Free White Persons - Females - 30 thru 39: 1 (Elizabeth Dalton Conner would have been 35 yrs old)
Free White Persons - Under 20: 5
Free White Persons - 20 thru 49: 2
Total Free White Persons: 7
Total - All Persons (Free White, Slaves, Free Colored): 7


1840 U.S. Census of West of North Fork, Burke County, North Carolina; Roll: 355; Page: 345; Image: 700; Family History Library Film: 0018092, Line 16, "Wm Conner" {on Page 340 is Zack Conner and Jackson Conner and on Pg 342 is Gilbert Conner.}
Wm Conner
Name: Wm Conner
Home in 1840 (City, County, State): West of North Fork, Burke, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 5: 1
Free White Persons - Males - 5 thru 9: 1
Free White Persons - Males - 10 thru 14: 2
Free White Persons - Males - 40 thru 49: 1 (William Albert Conner would have been 44 yrs old)
Free White Persons - Females - 5 thru 9: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 20 thru 29: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 40 thru 49: 1 (Elizabeth Dalton Conner would have been 44 yrs old)
Persons Employed in Agriculture: 3
No. White Persons over 20 Who Cannot Read and Write: 1
Free White Persons - Under 20: 5
Free White Persons - 20 thru 49: 3
Total Free White Persons: 8
Total All Persons - Free White, Free Colored, Slaves: 8

Jas H. Ferney
Jno J. Falconer
B.M. Bracket

Isaac Conner
Name: Isaac Conner
Home in 1840 (City, County, State): West of North Fork, Burke, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 5: 2
Free White Persons - Males - 10 thru 14: 1
Free White Persons - Males - 40 thru 49: 1
Free White Persons - Females - Under 5: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 5 thru 9: 2
Free White Persons - Females - 10 thru 14: 2
Free White Persons - Females - 30 thru 39: 1
Persons Employed in Agriculture: 2
No. White Persons over 20 Who Cannot Read and Write: 2
Free White Persons - Under 20: 8
Free White Persons - 20 thru 49: 2
Total Free White Persons: 10
Total All Persons - Free White, Free Colored, Slaves: 10
Wm Conner
Name: Wm Conner
Home in 1840 (City, County, State): West of North Fork, Burke, North Carolina
Free White Persons - Males - Under 5: 1
Free White Persons - Males - 5 thru 9: 1
Free White Persons - Males - 10 thru 14: 2
Free White Persons - Males - 40 thru 49: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 5 thru 9: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 20 thru 29: 1
Free White Persons - Females - 40 thru 49: 1
Persons Employed in Agriculture: 3
No. White Persons over 20 Who Cannot Read and Write: 1
Free White Persons - Under 20: 5
Free White Persons - 20 thru 49: 3
Total Free White Persons: 8
Total All Persons - Free White, Free Colored, Slaves: 8


1850 U.S. Census of Bills Creek, Rutherford County, North Carolina; Roll: M432_644; Page: 329B; Image: 205, Dwelling 1414 and 1415 and 1416 and 1419 and 1420, Family 1462 and 1463 and 1464 and 1667 and 1668, "Jackson Canner" and "Isaac Cornor" and "William Conner" (sic, it is Jackson Conner, Isaac Conner and William Conner), "Marcus Crawford", "Margaret Conner"Jackson Cannor, 30 yrs old (DOB 1820), M(ale), W(hite), Labor, Real Estate Value $50, Born in NC
Adaline Cannor, 31 yrs old (DOB 1819), F, W, Born in NC
James Cannor, 15 yrs old DOB 1835), M, W, Born in NC, Attends school
Ervin Cannor, 10 yrs old (DOB 1840), M, W, Born in NC, Attends School
Joseph Cannor, 7 yrs old (DOB 1843), M, W, Born in NC
Thomas Cannor, 3 yrs old (DOB 1847), M, W, Born in NC
Martha Cannor, 1 yrs old (DOB 1849), F, W, Born in NC
Nancy Thomason, 65 yrs old (DOB 1785), F, W, Born in NC
Isaac Cannor, 49 yrs old (DOB 1801), M, W, Farmer, $100 Real Estate Value, Born in NC
Rosana Cannor, 45 yrs old (DOB 1805), F, W, Born in NC
Susannah Cannor, 17 yrs old (DOB 1833), F, W, Born in NC, Attends School
Cyntha Cannor, 14 yrs old (DOB 1836), F, W, Born in NC, Attends school
Samuel Cannor, 12 yrs old (DOB 1838), M, W, Born in NC, Attends school
William Cannor, 10 yrs old (DOB 1840), M, W, Born in NC, Attends school
Sophiar Cannor, 6 yrs old (DOB 1844), F, W, Born in NC
Calvin Cannor, 4 yrs old (DOB 1846), M, W, Born in NC
William Canner, 52 yrs old (DOB 1798), M, W, Farmer, $100 Real Estate Value, Born in NC
Elizabeth Conner, 52 yrs old (DOB 1798), F, W, Born in NC
Atta Conner, 17 yrs old (DOB 1833), F, W, Born in NC
Johnathon Conner, M, W, Born in NC
Albert Conner, 12 yrs old (DOB 1838), M, W, Born in NC
Marcus Crawford, 28 yrs old (DOB 1822), M(ale), W(hite), House carpenter, Born in NC
Martha Crawford, 25 yrs old (DOB 1825), F, W, Born in NC
Louisa Crawford, 4/12 mos old (DOB 1850), F, W, Born in NC
William Crawford, 12 yrs old (DOB 1838), M, W, Born in NC
Margaret Connor (sic), 30 yrs old (DOB 1820), F, W, Head, Born in NC


1860 U.S. Census of Buffalo, Rutherford County, North Carolina; Roll: M653_913; Page: 371; Image: 192; Family History Library Film: 803913, Family 1392, Lines 23-25, "Wm Conner"
Wm Conner, 64 yrs old (DOB 1796), M(ale), W(hite), Day laborer, $0 Real estate value, $0 Personal estate value, Born in NC
Elizabeth Conner, 64 yrs old (DOB 1796), F, W, Born in NC
Albert Conner, 22 yrs old (DOB 1838), M, W, Born in NC
Noah and Alto Dalton and family


Elizabeth Dalton Conner died 1/11/1862 in Bills Creek, Rutherford County, NC. She is buried at Bills Creek Baptist Church, 1475 Bills Creek Road, Lake Lure, Rutherford, NC, USA.
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Elizabeth Dalton Conner
Birth: 1796, USA
Death: Jan. 11, 1862, Bills Creek, Rutherford County, North Carolina, USA
Born around 1796.
Family links: Spouse: William Albert Conner (1796 - ____)
Children:
Martha Conner Crawford (1826 - ____)
Isaac JACKSON Conner (1828 - ____)
Burial: Bills Creek Baptist Church Cemetery, Bills Creek, Rutherford County, North Carolina, USA
Created by: Donna Hemphill Robbins
Record added: Aug 08, 2009
Find A Grave Memorial# 40439421


1870 U.S. Census of Chimney Rock, Rutherford County, North Carolina; Roll: M593_1159; Page: 16B; Image: 36; Family History Library Film: 552658, Family 26, Lines 7-16, "Marcus Crofford" (sic, Marcus Crawford)
Marcus Crofford, 50 yrs old (DOB 1820), M(ale), W(hite), Farming, $500 Real estate value, $250 Personal estate value, Born in NC, Cannot read or write
Martha Crofford, 45 yrs old (DOB 1825), F, W, Keeping house, Bron in NC, Cannot read or write
Loiza Crofford (sic), 20 yrs old (DOB 1850), F, W, At home, Born in NC, Can read, Cannot write
Felix M. Crofford, 19 yrs old (DOB 1851), M, W, Working on farm, Born in NC, Can read, Cannot write
James Crofford, 15 yrs old (DOB 1855), M, W, Farming, Born in NC, Cannot read or write
John Crofford, 13 yrs old (DOB 1857), M, W, At home, Born in NC, Cannot read or write
Manerva Crofford, 11 yrs old (DOB 1859), M (sic), W, At home, Born in NC
Mary Crofford, 7 yrs old (DOB 1863), M (sic), W, At home, Born in NC
Rhody M. Crofford, 3 yrs old (DOB 1867), M (sic), W, Born in NC
William Conner, 71 yrs old (DOB 1799), M, W, Farming, Born in NC, Cannot read or write


William Albert Conner, Sr. died sometime after the 1870 U.S. Census was taken. He died in Bills Creek, Rutherford County, NC. He is buried at Bills Creek Baptist Church, 1475 Bills Creek Road, Lake Lure, Rutherford, NC, USA.
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William Albert Conner
Birth: 1796, Bills Creek, Rutherford County, North Carolina, USA
Death: unknown, Bills Creek, Rutherford County, North Carolina, USA
William Albert Conner's grave cannot be pictured, but is located in the center of the graveyard where the field stones have been removed. His and Elizabeth's first daughter, Margaret, was born around 1820, so it is assumed that they were married before that time. His death was after 1860. (sic)
Family links:
Parents: James Conner
Spouse: Elizabeth Dalton Conner (1796 - 1862)
Children:
Martha Conner Crawford (1826 - ____)
Isaac JACKSON Conner (1828 - ____)
Burial: Bills Creek Baptist Church Cemetery, Bills Creek, Rutherford County, North Carolina, USA
Created by: Donna Hemphill Robbins
Record added: Aug 08, 2009
Find A Grave Memorial# 40424349

When we consider the times that William Albert Conner lived in we first know that he was born in 1796, just 13 years after the end of the Revolutionary War. John Adams was President about the time William Albert Conner was born. He would live to see Thomas Jefferson, James Madison, James Monroe, John Quincy Adams, Andrew Jackson, Martin Van Buren, William Henry Harrison, John Tyler, James K. Polk, Zachary Taylor, Millard Filmore, Franklin Pierce, James Buchanan, Abraham Lincoln, Andrew Johnson and Ulysses S. Grant as Presidents of the United States. He lived through the War of Northern Aggression. He had at least one son that served the C.S.A. One son-in-law died during the War. He lived in the South during a time where slavery was a problem and lived through to see the slaves set free. He lived through the times when cotton was King and when War and Reconstruction obliterated the South's economy. He was a farmer in the western NC when farming was one of the hardest jobs and in an area where it would have been even harder. How many times did he plow by walking behind a mule? How many times did he hoe his crops? How many times did he pull weeds and haul water to water his crops? How many times did he cut wood with an ax for his fireplace and to keep warm? How many hog killings did he have to do and how many times did he go hunting to provide meat for the table? His family possibly lived in a log cabin that he built himself.

Tuesday Tip - Organizing Digital Genealogy Files and Manipulating Digital Genealogy Photos

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Tuesday’s Tip is a daily blogging prompt at Geneabloggers.com used by many genealogy bloggers to help them post content on their sites. What advice would you give to another genealogist or family historian, especially someone just starting out? Remember when you were new to genealogy? Wasn’t it great to find tips and tricks that worked for others? Post your best tips at your genealogy blog on Tuesday’s Tip.

My tip today is how to use your digital camera or scanner and software for your genealogy photos or scans. When I first started, I would make paper copies (aka hard copy) on the copying machine or printers at the library of documents or book pages as backup of my research. I.e. whenever I found a family on a microfilm of the 1880 U.S. Census, I would send it to the printer. Or if I found some information such as a will of an ancestor in a Will Index book then I would copy that page on the library copy machine. Now, I take along my camera and take photos of pages (be sure to take a photo of the title page too) or screen shots.

Now I am using Ancestry.com instead of going to the library to look at books and microfiche. From Ancestry.com, you can save a digital copy of that census page or record. You can save it to your Ancestry.com "Shoebox" (a digital filing cabinet that comes with your subscription) or to your computer. So I no longer keep hard copies of these things.

Then there are the photos of gravestones, cemeteries, churches, family homes, maps, etc. All this, I keep digitally.

There are two things I do to keep these digital files of documents and photos organized. One is to develop a filing system on my computer and the other is to make sure I make notations on these photos. Let's look at both of these.


Digital Filing Cabinet

Your computer can be organized using "folders" and "sub folders". You probably know of some of these folders already. They are "My Documents" and "My Pictures". You may also have "My Music" and "My Videos". These are on your hard drive and it's where you should already be putting your documents, pictures, music and videos. But you can further organize these main folders.

If you went into your company's front door and then walked to the Human Resources department and then to the filing cabinets that line one wall and went to the filing cabinet that is labelled "Employees" and looked in the top drawer labelled "A-B" and found the hanging file folder that was labelled "Aa-Ab" and then found the file folder labelled "John Aaron", then you have an idea of how to organize files.

How do we apply this to our computer? Well, your hard drive is the physical building (just like your company's physical building). The main folder of "My Documents" would be like that Human Resources department. Within that "My Documents" folder you can create sub-folders just like those filing cabinets ranging against the wall in the Human Resources department. Then, within the subfolder you can create sub-subfolders and sub-sub-subfolders just like the filing cabinet drawers and the hanging file folder in the example I gave you.

How do we create these subfolders? In File Explorer, you click on your hard drive, usually the C: drive unless you are working from a different hard drive. For instance I have a very large external hard drive (4 Terrabytes) hooked to my laptop via a USB cable and I use that as my main working drive. With Windows 10, you will select "This PC" which is essentially how they've organized the C: drive for you. Look for the folder, "My Documents" on the left side of the window and click on this to select "My Documents". Now "My Documents" is open in File Explorer on the right hand side of the window. Place your mouse inside the right hand side of the window and right click. Select "New" from the little menu that comes up. Now type a name for the new subfolder you want to create.

Here is how I have my folders and subfolders organized for genealogy:

This PC -> My Documents -> Genealogy Documents

So within "My Documents" is a subfolder named "Genealogy Documents".

Now I click on the subfolder of "Genealogy Documents" to open that sub folder in the right hand side of the window in File Explorer. Since this is a brand new subfolder, there is nothing in that right side of the window. I place my mouse indicator in that empty space and right click and create new sub-subfolders.

This PC -> My Documents -> Genealogy Documents -> Smith Family

I create subfolders for each family line that I research. So as I begin working on another family line, I create a subfolder for that family line in my Genealogy Documents folder. Right now I have probably 50+ folders and I add new ones as I work on new lines.

I do the same thing in the "My Pictures" folder. I created a subfolder called "Genealogy Photos" and then family folders within that one.

This PC
...My Documents
......Genealogy Documents
.........Smith Family
..........Doe Family
..........Harris Family
etc.

This PC
...My Pictures
......Genealogy Photos
.........Smith Family
.........Doe Family
.........Harris Family



Manipulating Digital Files

I use Adobe Photoshop Elements as the software that I use for my photo software. I use it to try and repair bad photos, for my digital scrapbooking and for labelling photos. There are other photo editing software that can do more or less than Adobe Photoshop Elements.

Let's look at this. For repairing photos, I'm not as proficient and my software is not as expensive and versatile to repair photos by too much. I can lighten, darken, remove some blemishes, etc. I consider that simple repairs. But some photos are so damaged that it takes more than what I can do. For instance I have no idea how to repair this photo. It seems to be a photocopy of an original. It's very grainy. It has some weird green splotches and plenty of blemishes. One thing to keep in mind is if you need to do extensive repairs, you need as good a digital copy of the file as you can get. The more pixels the better. So, if you are scanning a photo that needs a lot of work, be sure to scan it at the highest pixels or dots as possible. You can select the best resolution on your scanner and it will take more time to scan and will create a large file size.




Now, this photo I could do some work on. For instance, I can crop the photo so that I have the woman alone and/or the man alone. I can straighten the picture so that they are straight. I can lighten or darken. I can change it to Black and White.




Another way I use Adobe Photoshop Elements is to add information to a photo. I like to keep one digital copy of a photo without any labelling. But I also like to add labelling and save it as a separate file. Here are some examples:

This is a census page and I circles the pertinent family and added the source reference information in red at the top. I did this using a text box.



On this death certificate, I shaded the important information.



Here is a photo I took of my husband at the gravestone of one of his ancestors. This cemetery is nearly lost, in the woods on private property. I wanted to be sure I documented the GPS coordinates. I labelled this photo with where this cemetery is located, who is buried there, their relationships, the inscriptions.



Here is the same cemetery but not just one stone. Many of the graves are unmarked graves so I placed arrows in the photo indicating them.



In this group photo, I labelled the names of those in the group. If I had any further information, I would have noted that too such as what the occasion was, where the photo was taken, date it was taken, etc. But I don't have that information.



In this photo, I put the address of the homeplace and whose homeplace it was.



Another group photo but only one person is a family member. I used an arrow and text box to label this photo.



This is a map of the small town where I lived as a child. I was able to locate and shade places I remember and I labelled these places.



This is not a photo. I actually used Adobe Photoshop Elements to create a diagram of the old farmhouse we lived in while we lived in Elizabethton, TN. I added everything I could remember even to the furniture placement. Then I saved it as a .jpg (photo format) file.



Finally, here is a digital scrapbook page I created. This is a photo of my mother and a baby ME in front of the pink and white trailer we lived in before moving to Elizabethton, TN.


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